Vent!!

Vent!!
Ok, I'm going to get this off my chest.. I hate how people say "oh I love my family (childern). blah blah blah" But then you see they are out partying, drinking and shit.
Ok, I'm a Mother and yes I do go out like once a month, but not every weekend!! Once you start a family you can't just drop them off on people.. kids I mean. I mean you can drop them off on people and go do what ever your wanting to do with out a child.. but as soon as you leave that child the person you dropped them off on is talking shit about you!! I know trust me. I've done it once or twice about people leaving there kids with there parents..or grand parents.. friends.. friends of friends.. who ever they want to and don't call the check in on them or anything! Then the next day when they are all done with there hang over they come in like they are the best parent in the world, grab there child and do it all over again the next night.. if they even show up to get them the next day. I guess what I'm saying is.. if you have to say on myspace or Facebook or where ever "Oh Just dropped my kid off on his or her grandparents so I could get a nap, drink, clean house, get away, go out (more then you should be) or just get drop them off so you could go see a boy friend or girl friend.. You SHOULD HAVE NEVER HAVE HAD CHILDREN!! YOU ARE NOT A GOOD PARENT NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES YOU TRY TO TELL YOUR SELF THAT!!
I'm not talking about everyone out there, just a few people I know. I could never drop my son off for more then a day, or night. He has been with me from day one and has not left my side but for maybe two hours? I don't consider my self to be a great parent, but I'm pretty damn close.